"Bagi setiap muslim yang melihat kepada kecantikan wanita,lalu dia mengalihkan pandangan(ketempat lain), Allah akan menimbulkan suatu ibadat yang akan dirasakan kemanisan di dalam hatinya"
Riwayat Imam Ahmad & Ath-Thabrani
Lelaki yang bakal menjadi pemimpin isteri dalam keluarga, sebaik-baiknya rendahkanlah sedikit penilaian anda terhadap calon isteri anda, dengan harapan setelah dia menjadi isteri anda nanti, InsyaAllah anda akan terus mendidiknya lagi.Sayangnya, kebanyakkan daripada kita berbuat yang sebaliknya. Diukur dirinya dengan piawaian soleh yang rendah tetapi mengukur calon pasangannya dengan piawaian solehah yang tinggi. Ini merupakan satu kesilapan yang sering anda lakukan.
Jadi, tunggu apa lagi. Tamatkanlah penantian solehah itu dan tumpukan pembentukan soleh dalam diri anda. Ubahlah diri anda sendiri dengan meningkatkan sahsiah serta amalan harian. Ubahlah diri anda,nescaya orang lain akan berubah hasil perubahan anda. Ada ungkapan yang berbunyi" Jadilah kawan...Bukan carilah kawan..Ertinya, kita mesti menjadikan diri kita sebagai kawan terlebih dahulu,iaitu menanamkan sifat kesetiaan,jujur,amanah, sabar dan lain-lain maka secara automatik akan menarik orang lain untuk berkawan dengan kita.
Dengan itu, kita tidak perlu mencari kawan kerana segala sifat yang terpuji itu kawan-kawan akan datang dengan sendirinya.Maka keadaan ini sama boleh berlaku..jika kita menjadi soleh,maka solehah akan muncul dengan sendirinya. Jadilah soleh, bukan carilah solehah. Allah telah berfirman,
" Perempuan-perempuan yang baik adalah untuk lelaki-lelaki yang baik.."
(An-Nur 24:26)
Kia harus malu dengan Allah juga pada diri kita sendiri. Kita inginkan jodoh yang baik sedangkan diri kita tidak baik. Kadang-kadang lucu juga bila mendengar ada pemuda-pemuda yang tunggang-langgang hidupnya di bandar,kaki botol, berpeleseran, berjudi dan sebagainya tetapi bila hendak berumahtangga minta ibu bapa carikan wanita solehah di kampung..
Fikir-fikirkanlah..
Adakah anda begitu? Atau pernag terfikir untuk berbuat demikian?
Ingatlah, Allah SWT tidak akn mengubah sesuatu kaum itu melainkan mereka sendiri yang mengubah diri mereka ..
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Aku Dan Kehidupanku(5)
I`m back to write something happened in my life..
I`m really tired cause of the 'Lobang-lobang' schedule that I must go through everyday. Imagine that I just have two class per day, but One in the morning and the other at night. Huh..! Whatever happened, la budda lana, I must show my face. Huhu.. Lately, I`m always lost my appetite and feel depress. I don`t know because of what,either about the study nor my robocon schedule. That`s all things not relly disturb me, but maybe I keep thinking about some of my 'ancient history'that always replays in my mind. Really affect my daily life.
For the whole this week, I`m probably 'berkampung' at Innology Lab to finish our robot get ready for the InterUTM Robocon Competition at the end of this month. All these things sometimes help me to forget about the 'ancient history'.
Alhamdulillah..
What you see is what you get,and what you give you also get it back..
Life is a journey. Even the sadness or happiness, it will rotate all over. Nobody get the happiness for the rest of her or his life,right? I`m always remind myself bersyukur with whatever I have.
Not really released for whole this week because of the decision made by Joan. She maybe will continue her study at the one of polythecnique in Singapore.Huhu.. So sad..
Means...??
Means that I will be completely ALONE next semester. Now, I can imagine what will happen to me next semester. Eating alone... Going to class alone.. Go back to KSJ(my hostel) alone.. Wah... so lonely..
I`m really tired cause of the 'Lobang-lobang' schedule that I must go through everyday. Imagine that I just have two class per day, but One in the morning and the other at night. Huh..! Whatever happened, la budda lana, I must show my face. Huhu.. Lately, I`m always lost my appetite and feel depress. I don`t know because of what,either about the study nor my robocon schedule. That`s all things not relly disturb me, but maybe I keep thinking about some of my 'ancient history'that always replays in my mind. Really affect my daily life.
For the whole this week, I`m probably 'berkampung' at Innology Lab to finish our robot get ready for the InterUTM Robocon Competition at the end of this month. All these things sometimes help me to forget about the 'ancient history'.
Alhamdulillah..
What you see is what you get,and what you give you also get it back..
Life is a journey. Even the sadness or happiness, it will rotate all over. Nobody get the happiness for the rest of her or his life,right? I`m always remind myself bersyukur with whatever I have.
Not really released for whole this week because of the decision made by Joan. She maybe will continue her study at the one of polythecnique in Singapore.Huhu.. So sad..
Means...??
Means that I will be completely ALONE next semester. Now, I can imagine what will happen to me next semester. Eating alone... Going to class alone.. Go back to KSJ(my hostel) alone.. Wah... so lonely..
Friday, February 27, 2009
Aku Dan kehidupanku(4)
Aku berasa agak sedih kerana sudah sekian lama tidak menulis dan mempublish new entry kat sini. Hehehehe.. Now I`m back to continue my journey..
Feel quite bored because nothing to do in the Innology Squad Lab.Hurmm.. I borrow Fatin`s laptop to write something. This morning I already read a chapater from a book entititled Life Is Open Secret written by Zabrina A.Bakar the most favourite book that I always bring and read anywhere.Hahaha..
I realized and noticed somthing that I have done. Somthing wrong which I never realized before. Quess what?? Hehehe.. I always loss my patience..Huhuhu.. Astaghfirullah..
When I`m reading that book, I found a Hadith that would be among the reason why Prophet Muhammad(peace upon him) had emphasized so much on anger
'Some are swift(faster) to anger and swift to cool down,the one characteristic making up for the other;some are slow to anger and slow to cool down, the one characteristic making up for the other;the best of you are those that are slow to anger, and swift to cool down and the worst of you are those who are swift to anger and slow to cool down.' (At-Tirmidhi)
Inilah kehidupan. bukan mudah nak menjaga iman,tetapi usaha untuk menjaganya mestilah sentiasa dilaksanakan, istiqamah.. InsyaAllah.. I trying to get myself into.
Patience is a virtue. Iman manusia sentiasa bertambah dan berkurang.. sometimes there will be something that always drag me into 'madness of anger' atau 'marah giler'.. But I`m just keep quiet.. take a deep breath and.. Fuhh..Sometimes release and sometimes 'accident', terbabas.. Kebaboom..!!
Oh, my God!!
My Physics class in just 15 minutes..
I`m coming...
I will continue..
Inilah hakikat kehidupan..Sometimes we are brought up by the wheel and vise versa. so, as a humankind we actually should have our vision and mission to achieve in our life. Let our life full of hapinness and barakah.Hmmm.. Talk about happiness... What is the most happy moment in my life??
Alamak.. Lupa la...
Let me list here:
>> when I got something that I really want using my tulang empat kerat.
>> When I meet my beloved person especially my parents and my family.
>> When I got a chance to have a happy time playing tenpin bowling more than
five games.. Hahahaha..(nak tercabut tangan)
>> When my friends sincerely celebrate my birthday even I know they all are really
tired.>> when somebody make me smile and gelak terguling-guling(especially my sis)
>> When I met someone that I really love in my live..*wink*wink(muka gatal...)
>> When I easilly cool down and get low tendency to get angry..(=P)
>> When I can hang out with my friend till night(Pit and Ila, bila lagi?Haha..)
>> when I reward myself(???)
>> When I got a chance to sleep..
And the important point that actually I`m going to write is about my birthday celebration organised by all my beloved friends Ika, Ana, Ayu, Wani, Izah, Yaya, AJ, Ereen,Joan,Iram, and etc.. I don`t really remember because all of you make me really happy at that night.. Thank you so much for your nice cake and my favourite nasi lemak.. Hehehe.. Thank you so much..!! muaah100x..=)Thanks a lot for your birthday presents,

syiqah : Thank you for your nice gift, snow globe yg comel gler.. Luv u so much!!
Alif : Thank you for your Kinder Bueno,even dah cair, but still mmm.. yummy..
Amirul : Thank you for your Ferrero Rocher, ada 3 kan. Aku mkan satu, Ika satu and
Ana satu.. Sharing is loving..Hahahaha..
Zulfazli : Thanks jugak ko punya Chocolate.. Sedap coklat ko. Ada raisins..



Mmmm.. what a nice day I have..!!
Feel quite bored because nothing to do in the Innology Squad Lab.Hurmm.. I borrow Fatin`s laptop to write something. This morning I already read a chapater from a book entititled Life Is Open Secret written by Zabrina A.Bakar the most favourite book that I always bring and read anywhere.Hahaha..
I realized and noticed somthing that I have done. Somthing wrong which I never realized before. Quess what?? Hehehe.. I always loss my patience..Huhuhu.. Astaghfirullah..
When I`m reading that book, I found a Hadith that would be among the reason why Prophet Muhammad(peace upon him) had emphasized so much on anger
'Some are swift(faster) to anger and swift to cool down,the one characteristic making up for the other;some are slow to anger and slow to cool down, the one characteristic making up for the other;the best of you are those that are slow to anger, and swift to cool down and the worst of you are those who are swift to anger and slow to cool down.' (At-Tirmidhi)
Inilah kehidupan. bukan mudah nak menjaga iman,tetapi usaha untuk menjaganya mestilah sentiasa dilaksanakan, istiqamah.. InsyaAllah.. I trying to get myself into.
Patience is a virtue. Iman manusia sentiasa bertambah dan berkurang.. sometimes there will be something that always drag me into 'madness of anger' atau 'marah giler'.. But I`m just keep quiet.. take a deep breath and.. Fuhh..Sometimes release and sometimes 'accident', terbabas.. Kebaboom..!!
Oh, my God!!
My Physics class in just 15 minutes..
I`m coming...
I will continue..
Inilah hakikat kehidupan..Sometimes we are brought up by the wheel and vise versa. so, as a humankind we actually should have our vision and mission to achieve in our life. Let our life full of hapinness and barakah.Hmmm.. Talk about happiness... What is the most happy moment in my life??
Alamak.. Lupa la...
Let me list here:
>> when I got something that I really want using my tulang empat kerat.
>> When I meet my beloved person especially my parents and my family.
>> When I got a chance to have a happy time playing tenpin bowling more than
five games.. Hahahaha..(nak tercabut tangan)
>> When my friends sincerely celebrate my birthday even I know they all are really
tired.>> when somebody make me smile and gelak terguling-guling(especially my sis)
>> When I met someone that I really love in my live..*wink*wink(muka gatal...)
>> When I easilly cool down and get low tendency to get angry..(=P)
>> When I can hang out with my friend till night(Pit and Ila, bila lagi?Haha..)
>> when I reward myself(???)
>> When I got a chance to sleep..
And the important point that actually I`m going to write is about my birthday celebration organised by all my beloved friends Ika, Ana, Ayu, Wani, Izah, Yaya, AJ, Ereen,Joan,Iram, and etc.. I don`t really remember because all of you make me really happy at that night.. Thank you so much for your nice cake and my favourite nasi lemak.. Hehehe.. Thank you so much..!! muaah100x..=)Thanks a lot for your birthday presents,
syiqah : Thank you for your nice gift, snow globe yg comel gler.. Luv u so much!!
Alif : Thank you for your Kinder Bueno,even dah cair, but still mmm.. yummy..
Amirul : Thank you for your Ferrero Rocher, ada 3 kan. Aku mkan satu, Ika satu and
Ana satu.. Sharing is loving..Hahahaha..
Zulfazli : Thanks jugak ko punya Chocolate.. Sedap coklat ko. Ada raisins..
Mmmm.. what a nice day I have..!!
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Friday, February 13, 2009
Bila saya.....
Bila Saya Bosan..
Miss Eka: Wat bodoh je la.....
Aku : Blogging..hehehe..
Bila Saya lapar..
Miss Eka:Pergi bilik Ayu paw biskut Ayu!
Aku :Aku nampak Izah beli stock makanan baru..
Bila saya Rajin..
Miss Eka: Tolong lipat kain Anis..
Aku : Kemas locker..
Bila saya happy
Miss Eka: Tersengih-sengih sepanjang hari..
Aku : Dengan semua orang saya nak cakap.. Bahan orang..
Bila saya sedih
Miss Eka:Menyendiri....huhu..
Aku : Tidoor..
Bila saya Bangun tidor..
Miss Eka: Tengok handset ada mesej ke tak..
Aku : Matikan alarm..
Bila saya makan ais-krim..
Miss Eka: Cepat-cepat makan, nanti orang mintak
Aku : Mkan cepat-cepat dan beli lagi satu..=)
Bila saya tengok orng korek hidung..
Miss Eka: Eeeee....
Aku : Pengsan..
Bila saya nak kahwin..
Miss Eka: Bila umur dah 25 tahun..
Aku : Bila ada orang yang nak.. Hahaha..
Bila saya dapat umah besar..
Miss Eka: Nak beli perabot, tapi tak nak crowded..
Aku : Kecikkan sebab nak duduk sorng-sorang..
Bila Saya makan burger..
Miss Eka: Susah bebenor nak makan...
Aku : Tak suka burger ayam..
Bila saya..Bila larut malam..
Miss Eka dan Aku: Tarakucah..cah..cah.. Tarakucah..cah..cah..
Miss Eka: Wat bodoh je la.....
Aku : Blogging..hehehe..
Bila Saya lapar..
Miss Eka:Pergi bilik Ayu paw biskut Ayu!
Aku :Aku nampak Izah beli stock makanan baru..
Bila saya Rajin..
Miss Eka: Tolong lipat kain Anis..
Aku : Kemas locker..
Bila saya happy
Miss Eka: Tersengih-sengih sepanjang hari..
Aku : Dengan semua orang saya nak cakap.. Bahan orang..
Bila saya sedih
Miss Eka:Menyendiri....huhu..
Aku : Tidoor..
Bila saya Bangun tidor..
Miss Eka: Tengok handset ada mesej ke tak..
Aku : Matikan alarm..
Bila saya makan ais-krim..
Miss Eka: Cepat-cepat makan, nanti orang mintak
Aku : Mkan cepat-cepat dan beli lagi satu..=)
Bila saya tengok orng korek hidung..
Miss Eka: Eeeee....
Aku : Pengsan..
Bila saya nak kahwin..
Miss Eka: Bila umur dah 25 tahun..
Aku : Bila ada orang yang nak.. Hahaha..
Bila saya dapat umah besar..
Miss Eka: Nak beli perabot, tapi tak nak crowded..
Aku : Kecikkan sebab nak duduk sorng-sorang..
Bila Saya makan burger..
Miss Eka: Susah bebenor nak makan...
Aku : Tak suka burger ayam..
Bila saya..Bila larut malam..
Miss Eka dan Aku: Tarakucah..cah..cah.. Tarakucah..cah..cah..
Thursday, February 12, 2009
something to say...
Ashee : Ko gelak la puas-puas.. Kalau ko kat tempat aku ko tawla.. i Feel something missing in my life. Sungguh selepas aku cakap dengan ustazah. baru aku start terfikir. Hmm.. before this, aku wat don`t know je.. Cam xder perasaan.. Hahahah..
Qider: Sis, feel like something not good to hear..rite? hmm.. kalau xkeberatan, let me know.. sumtimes sharing may release everything.. even not fully release, but it reduce from 100%..
*wink*wink
Qider: Sis, feel like something not good to hear..rite? hmm.. kalau xkeberatan, let me know.. sumtimes sharing may release everything.. even not fully release, but it reduce from 100%..
*wink*wink
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